"i was born at a very young age"
A catcall is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The purity myth is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The fetishization of female purity in a world where catcalls are an acceptable form of communication telegraphs one thing very clearly:
“Women, stop sexualizing yourselves—that’s our job, and you’re taking all the fun out of it.”
The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise it’s “sluttiness,” and sluttiness is agency and agency is threatening.
dude i like i cringe when i still hear the term “friend zone” it’s like ok get over it if ur not someone’s type, it’s cool if ur nice but the fact you expect something more than friendship from apparently being “genuine” just proves ur a fucking scumbag so talk 2 the hand u moron